How many times have we heard about a friend, a neighbor or a loved one who has an addiction, anger issues, an eating disorder, a sleep disorder similar to that suffered by one of their parents? It always seems to amaze us and maybe even appall us because we think they should know better especially having grown up around it. History is a funny thing. It tends to repeat itself because children model what they see in their home. There are no two ways around it. We look up to our parents when we are kids. We want to be just like mom and dad. They are our first hero’s in life and the first role model we look up to without even understanding the ramifications.
What if we could break the chain of insanity to create a modeling environment of love, joy, peace and moderation? Maybe we need a stronger incentive in order to focus our energies on becoming a positive role model in our own homes. Look closely in the mirror and then into the face of your child. Now think that what you see in the mirror is a reflection of what your child will see in 20 years. Maybe that is exactly the incentive we need to make the necessary changes in our lives. It is often not a big enough “why” to change for our own well being or that of our spouse. But how can we look into the eyes of such young and fragile being still blessed with all the hope breathed into him/her by the creator of the universe and not do all we can to help them find the right path in life. If we walk that path, they will follow!
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